MesSAGE –It Is What It Is

It is so easy for us to get caught up in our thinking about if we had done something a different way,  things would be better now or feeling discouraged or disappointed due to not having an outcome we wanted when we were positive,  affirming,attracting &doing all the supposedly right things to have it happen.  This results into thinking  &  feeling we must have done it wrong,  seems it hasn’t worked for us.  We can affirm,  wish,  want,  demand to the Universe forever  …  but on some level I feel this is still trying to  ‘control’  outcomes.   If what we are putting out there doesn’t show up,  we feel we have done it wrong when in fact,  perhaps it isn’t for the highest  &  best for us at that time and our soul/spirit knows this is so!   Is it not easier to simply align with your soul,  have a conversation with it as if it is your director and best friend by checking in and asking what is next that is the highest  &  best for us?  We all have different experiences to learn  &  contribute to our own unique path,  and where that fits into the bigger picture must have to do with timing  &  synchronicity.  Our minds try to find out why nothing has ‘worked’and then feels defeated.   If this has been your experience what about this …  accept what is  …  it is what it is.   When we analyze and go over  &  over in our minds trying to figure out what we did wrong,  what is that contributing?  It just breeds anxiousness,  which in turn breeds anxiety  &  a sense of despair.  Then the vicious circle replays,  by the mind saying  ‘you did it wrong’.   Try just accepting  &  trusting that where you are at in this moment is where you are meant to be!  It is what it is …